December 20: A Day of Love Remembered

 

As I sit quietly this evening, my thoughts are drawn irresistibly to George, my beloved husband. December 21 marks the day we stood before God and pledged our hearts to one another—a date forever etched into my soul. Time moves swiftly, and though it has been two and a half years since George left for my Father’s home, not a single day passes without his presence in my thoughts. In the morning, afternoon, and night, especially in the quiet moments before sleep, I feel his love surrounding me, as real as if he were here by my side.

We had a love that was tender and true, a bond nurtured by daily rituals that reflected the depth of our connection. Each morning began with a warm hug, each night ended with a kiss and shared prayers. We faced life together, whether in joy or sorrow, encouraging one another with faith and hope. “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8). This verse guided our marriage, reminding us that forgiveness and grace are the cornerstones of a lasting union.

Our shared love of literature added another layer to our lives. Together, we journeyed through the words of Tolstoy, Shakespeare, Faulkner, and Conrad. “There is no happiness or unhappiness in this world; there is only the comparison of one state with another,” Tolstoy wrote in Anna Karenina. We cherished these moments, marveling at the truths that spoke to the human heart. Shakespeare’s sonnet whispered to us, “Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds... It is an ever-fixed mark that looks on tempests and is never shaken.”

And yet, life brings its tempests. The price of such profound love, I have come to understand, is the grief that lingers when one is left behind. C.S. Lewis, in his reflections on loss, wrote, “To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken.” My heart is indeed wrung, yet I would not trade one moment of our shared life, for even the pain is a testament to the beauty of what we had.

In the evenings, I often imagine George sitting on the couch or by my bedside, his kind eyes
meeting mine as we talk about the day. Though I can no longer touch his hand, I feel his spirit near, as if whispering the words of Matthew 28:20: “Surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” His presence is a reminder that love transcends even death.

Our marriage was a journey of faith, anchored in the belief that God’s love sustains all things. “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate” (Mark 10:9). In this assurance, I find solace. Though George has gone ahead, I trust that he is preparing a room for me in the Father’s house, as Jesus promised in John 14:2.

On the eve of our anniversary, I celebrate the love that defined our lives, a love that remains eternal. George, you are my ever-fixed mark, my joy and my sorrow, my strength and my vulnerability. As we shared our favorite literary lines, I now share this prayer:

Lord, thank You for the gift of love that George and I shared. May this love continue to light my path, even in his absence, until we meet again in Your eternal embrace. Amen.

The Power of Being Thankful

The Power of Being Thankful

The power of being thankful can transform us, especially when it touches our lives during challenging times. As we navigate the difficult journey of redeeming our lives, embracing gratitude becomes a source of resilience and strength. In these moments, thankfulness offers comfort and clarity, helping us find purpose even in uncertainty. As 1 Thessalonians 5:18 reminds us, "Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." It is in this space that we often sense the guiding presence of a higher power, reminding us that we are never alone and that every step we take, no matter how hard, has meaning. 

Thankfulness also opens our hearts to a deeper sense of happiness. By appreciating even the smallest blessings, we become more aware of the abundance that surrounds us. This shift in perspective nurtures contentment and reduces the constant pursuit of external successes. As Philippians 4:6-7 teaches, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." True fulfillment comes not from accumulating wealth or status but from valuing the richness of life's experiences and the connections we share with others.

Giving Thanks for People in Our Lives

 

Giving Thanks for People in Our Lives

The relationships we share are among God’s greatest blessings. Whether family, friends, or mentors, the people in our lives shape us in profound ways. Philippians 1:3 beautifully captures this sentiment: “I thank my God every time I remember you.” Make it a habit to express appreciation to those around you. A kind word, a handwritten note, or even a sincere “thank you” can strengthen bonds and spread God’s love. Recognize that every person is a gift from God, placed in your life for a purpose. Celebrate their presence, and thank God for the unique ways they enrich your journey.

Appreciating God’s Creation

 

Appreciating God’s Creation

The natural world is a masterpiece of God’s creativity, offering endless reasons for gratitude. Psalm 19:1 declares, “The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of His hands.” From the vastness of the stars to the intricate design of a flower, creation reflects God’s majesty and love. Take time to marvel at the world around you. Whether through a walk in nature, observing wildlife, or simply feeling the sun on your face, let these moments draw you into worship. Appreciate the gift of creation, and thank God for allowing you to witness its beauty.

The Joy of a Thankful Spirit

 

The Joy of a Thankful Spirit

A thankful spirit is contagious, uplifting not only your soul but also the hearts of those around you. Colossians 3:15 urges us, “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” Gratitude transforms the atmosphere of any situation. It fosters peace, humility, and joy, even amid challenges. Make gratitude your default response—thank God in prayer, speak words of appreciation to others, and cherish the blessings in each day. By doing so, you reflect Christ’s love and spread His peace to a world in need.

Thanking God for His Faithfulness

 

Thanking God for His Faithfulness

God’s faithfulness is a constant we can rely on, no matter what life brings. Lamentations 3:22-23 proclaims, “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” Take time each day to thank Him for His unwavering love, provision, and guidance. Reflect on how He has carried you through past challenges and trust that He will remain faithful in the future. Gratitude for His faithfulness strengthens our faith and fills our hearts with hope. 

Living a Life of Gratitude

 

Living a Life of Gratitude

Gratitude is more than an occasional practice; it is a lifestyle that honors God. Colossians 2:6-7 encourages, “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in Him... overflowing with thankfulness.” Begin each day with a prayer of thanks, look for God’s hand in every moment, and end each day reflecting on His goodness. A life rooted in gratitude draws us closer to God and fills us with His peace.